Allow yourself to imagine this for a moment...
Your partner notices you're navigating a few too many things and stops to ask, "How best can I support you?" Your heart floods with gratitude as you feel the enormity of his love.
"Thank you", you respond, gently accepting his help and expressing what you need.
He jumps into action, following your direction. And a huge weight lifts from your shoulders.
You relax, feeling the reassurance of his support. You truly trust that he's got your back - and you have his.
You make a powerful team! A force to be reckoned with.
But it hasn't always been this way…
In the past, you'd have brushed off his help, trying to manage everything by yourself. Or you'd have told yourself that letting him 'help' would only create more stress for you.
I remember feeling this way: It started when I asked past partners to take care of things for me, only for them not to get done.
I ended up doing them myself and feeling frustrated, disappointed, and let down. I began to put up my walls and stopped asking for help. I stopped trusting; I stopped being vulnerable.
And my relationship fell apart.
Because without trust, there's no genuine intimacy, connection, or teamwork. Love can't survive.
So how did I cultivate the deep trust, teamwork and intimacy I have in my incredible Forever Love relationship today?
It was surprisingly simple
Once I decided that my man had integrity, I chose to trust it.
👉 I chose to trust his decisions and judgement.
👉 I chose to trust his capability.
👉 I chose to trust his word.
👉 And I chose to trust every action he took was with mine - and our - highest good in mind.
And when I stopped trying to control him, got vulnerable, and just asked for what I wanted...
He rose to the occasion.
Because men actually love to help us. It allows them to feel valued. And when you trust your man to do a good job, he grows in confidence too.
Trusting my partner's integrity allowed me to embody what healthy trust feels like. My nervous system relaxed, and I learned it's safe to rely on my man: He's got my back.
Learning to let go of control and daring to trust another can bring up a lot of emotions!
So I developed a fast and effective method to support my clients to easefully transition into this work - it's called my Trust & Teamwork experience.
Trust & Teamwork is a fast-results coaching experience for women in great relationships who want to make them even greater.
Over 4-8 sessions, you will:
- learn to build trust with your partner through open and honest communication
- receive exercises to cultivate deeper intimacy
- heal past wounds with some inner-child conversations and support
This experience will support you to:
♥ Cultivate deeper trust in your relationship, so you can learn that it's safe to lean on your partner
♥ Rebuild your ability to trust
♥ Develop an ethos of teamwork between you and your partner
♥ Improve communication in your relationship
♥ Enhance emotional intimacy and appreciation for your partne
The clients I've worked with in this way report that their relationships went from strength to strength when they learned how to trust their men:
"I wasn't trusting my partner to make the right decisions in the right time frame, which was hindering me from relying on him. But now that I'm trusting him wholly, it's relieved the pressure on me. I'm more relaxed and happier. I'm in my feminine energy more. It's given him more confidence too." - female, 32.
So, if you know you've got a good man and you'd love to let him in more, this is for you.
Let him be there for you: Book an exploration call to see if you're a good fit for my Trust & Teamwork experience.
I'll ask you some questions on the call to learn about the dynamics in your relationship that feel challenging and give you an honest opinion about whether I can support your relationship to flourish.
If I think you'd be a great fit, I'll invite you into the experience. If not, I'll offer some alternative steps you can take.
Choose and day and time that suit you and book your call below 👇