Hi, I’m Natalie Ford — founder of The Secure Feminine.
For years, I built the kind of life I thought would bring happiness: success, independence, adventure. I could attract incredible men — kind, confident, successful — but I couldn’t get love to last.
Each time I thought I’d finally found “the one,” the same patterns would play out. I didn’t feel safe letting a man lead, so I’d slip into control. No matter how hard I tried to regulate my emotions and communicate gently, my protective defences would frequently take over.
Eventually, he would leave.
It wasn’t until I looked deeper — beyond self-love work and knowing my attachment style — that I realised the truth:
I was never broken.
I wasn’t “too much.”
My nervous system had just never learned how to feel safe.
When I began working with trauma-informed, inner child healing practices, everything shifted. I learned how to rewire the protective patterns driving my relationships — and finally felt secure, authentic, and deeply connected in love.
That journey is why I do this work today.
Love in which you feel seen, held, and chosen isn’t just possible — it’s the relationship you were always meant to have.
Now, I support ambitious, deep-thinking women like you to create love in which you feel seen, held, and chosen — relationships that nourish you as deeply as you nourish them.
Through a blend of trauma-aware coaching, somatic shadow work, shamanic breathwork, emotional release, empowerment mindset, and Internal Family Systems-inspired approaches, I help you gently dissolve old patterns, reclaim your worth, and open to intimacy that finally feels safe to receive.
Clients describe my sessions as safe, shame-free, and deeply supportive — a space where nothing is “too much” and every part of you is welcome.
Together, we create the space where your nervous system can soften, your authenticity can shine, and love becomes a place of rest — not struggle.
The women I work with walk away with:
✨ Elevated self-worth
✨ Greater emotional security
✨ The ability to stay in integrity even under pressure
And most of all, relationships that nourish them as deeply as they nourish others
❤ Elevated self-worth
❤ Greater emotional security
❤ Relationships that nourish you as much as you nourish others
Beautiful woman,
→ You don’t have to keep circling in the same painful patterns.
→ You don’t have to keep overworking for love.
→ You don’t have to journey alone.
If you’re ready to return to love that truly nourishes you, I’d be honoured to walk alongside and guide you.
